Who am I specifically shaming with my comments? You are reading way to far into this and looking for things that aren't there or you are just misreading. I'm not refusing to ask any one specific person because I do not care about any one specific person to ask. I like how you would have me ask people questions privately, but refuse to discuss this with me privately. I have not disrespected, shamed or or guilted anyone into giving up anything they don't want to. I don't know how to say it other than how I've already said it. What I asked as a suggestion that people include more detail. I'm not asking for a rule change or any requirements. Apparently you are very sensitive with this topic and it has struck a nerve where you think I've come off with some synde comments. Not a single word I've said has been meant to belittle anyone from keeping their mod list private.